People get busy in their own lives, and that will happen till the end. Yes, people are sympathetic at the start, but things begin to fade. It happens so much that you get disillusioned. In the end, it is better to suffer alone and not burden others. If they want to see, they will know.
I am the eldest, yet everyone who visits does not seem to think so. I have seen that people usually do not have good relations with their siblings, egos or something of the sort. Or perhaps I am this way and they followed. Let us see if it will fade as the years go by.