Honestly, the question of "When will you get married?" is such an intrusive question depending on who's asking it.
I don't mind close relationships asking if the conversation naturally goes there, but it shouldn't be asked by just any busybody who feels they can poke into your life like how they feel they can walk into your home uninvited. 🚪
People have so many personal and private reasons for their current status: whether they want to get married or not, wanting to marry but facing external pressure to split up, navigating divorce and remarriage, or even being unable to legally marry the person they love.
If you ask me family is the first poking around and rarely likes seeing you happy. Being unable to be with the one you love is the worst (no need to get married,a living together contract can do the trick as well (works where taxes should be paid) and if the relationship ends it's way cheaper and easier to leave (unless the ex is a stalker).
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Now you mentioned it, yeah, I noticed that. Some family members just like to throw insults around.
Unfortunately, that's why I deleted mine years ago. It still feels like a relief, which says enough after all those years.