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RE: Doing the dishes of last week
In our society, it is considered wrong to make men do work, especially involving men in household chores, but I want to do something different from my society, which is why I keep my husband and son busy with me so that no one person has to do any work and they don't feel like a burden.
Strange... Cooking, cleaning, doing the dishes, sewing clothes are house chorus, but at the same time professions many men have from chef cook, to tailor, world famous designers! The same counts for doctors! They have to be able to use a needle, pair of scissors. I always tell my son: no woman likes a lazy man, since that is what it is: laziness.
Who doesn't work, doesn't eat, also counts for house chorus.
It's hard to raise an adult man next to a child, but you for sure have a better, more close family where everyone does his share and knows what to do if you get ill. This is important.
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@ wakeupkitty
It is a waste of time to persuade a lazy person to do any kind of work. It is better to do the work yourself than to ask someone who is not used to working. My effort is always to make every child, whether small or big, get used to working. So that when they grow up and have to do more big things, they do not have to face any kind of trouble or discomfort. This is the reason why sometimes when I fall ill, there is no pile of work in the house. Rather, everyone shares the work together. And there is no bitterness in the atmosphere of the house.
That's how many think and what the lazy person counts with. No way I will do that, it means I always do all the work while they are served. The lazier the harder I put them at work.
It's a good effort. I did the same and the good thing is a 2-year-old likes to help out and do things so if you start forbid it or do it yourself because it goes faster it means they will never lift a finger again.
I always say: same house, shared chorus and responsibilities.
I wish you a few good, relaxing last days of 2025.
Working together not only makes the work easier, but it also brings blessings to the work, saves time, and prevents any one person from getting tired. When everyone works together, teamwork accomplishes a good job.
If they work together it does "together" is the keyword.
It is true that together is the key word. Thanks for commenting