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RE: The Condition
It's sad when people can't keep their wedding vows. I suppose that's always been the case, only some prefer to lead a double life.
On the other hand, it's a shame that people prioritize comfort over health, and then are shocked when they are diagnosed with diabetes or even worse.
In the neighborhood there is a woman who prefers to buy cigarettes instead of giving milk to her children, which makes me hate that unwritten rule that "everyone has the right to have children".
If they're going to be terrible parents, why have kids at all?! That double standard makes me sick, because in the end, the people who are looked down upon are the ones who decide not to have children!
The question is if they know at forehand they will be bad parents same for ending up a single parent. If you ask me family, society keeps preaching how valuable it is to have children. It is all about love and fun and never all the mountains one should climb, the sacrifices and the serious health damages after giving birth, the endless lack of sleep.
Parents always giving in, spoiling children are also not great parents same for those with overweighted children.
Well, I think there are certain indicators that could predict how good they might be as parents. For example, a woman who never works, and doesn't even do laundry, because if it's dirty she just throws it away.
Of course, there are also those who, despite having money, are bad parents, like the cases you mentioned. If you had to buy a license to have children, including exams, it would be less fortuitous.
And of course, there are mental illnesses, but in the end, it's the children who suffer.
I find it dangerous thing to buy a license the xorrupt ones, influencers will and already do... And who is in charge and decides? What kind of creep decides. I doubt we can predict even 50 % will turn out to be a good parent. The only one who decides is in the end the child, a child influenced by teacher, woke,fake news and whatever the period, culture was they grew up in.
What a sad fate for the children...