You know what it is, when someone asks for your opinion, they already know the answer and they just want to hear what they want to hear or they want to hear a solution, and if it goes wrong, they can blame you. That's called spineless or cunning. You see the same thing with people who simply don't want to hear the truth and then pretend to be deaf and blind. But I suspect that in reality they already know the truth, perhaps unconsciously, but often consciously, and I just tried to push them away a little. What you don't know, you can't do, right? It's just a pity that it keeps gnawing at you, whether or not with nightmares, because hard facts are not as easy to brush aside as you often think. I think you can only live comfortably with lies if you are really stupid or seriously believe that others don't see through you. In any case, that wouldn't work for me. In that respect, I'm like a detective, I just keep digging. And I look for answers, but on the other hand, I also can't stand stupid people, so I prefer to stay away from them. Simply because they are very tiring.
It would indeed be nice if everyone just lived their own lives and didn't interfere with each other. Unfortunately, that's where things often go wrong. Meddling, unhealthy interest in each other, the urge to dominate or manipulate others is clearly greater than a little peace of mind and living in peace. Be honest, what is so enjoyable about making someone's life miserable and keeping an eye on them all the time? There are so many other things you could be doing. How bored must you be?