If I cut off the stamens, there is no allergy. Fortunately, we don't have that many of them. Flower shops are also becoming fewer and fewer, so that helps. I haven't had a bouquet of flowers in my house for years. For some reason, I find it upsetting to see cut flowers, which are already dead, continue to die in a vase in the house. It doesn't really make me happy. It doesn't matter that you used a different photo, it's a flower, it's red and your poem is very moving!