Getting help from extended family members - My story

Good evening everyone, this is an interesting topic because it brings back to memory history of life and how far everyone have gone in life.
So many people have been so fortunate that they needed help from extended family while some are unfortunate that they are even the one to offer help, listen to my own story.

Have you been helped by your extended family members such as your uncles or aunts?

I have never received any help from extended family, both uncle and auntie.
I have an uncle who is a good position to help me but he's too stingy and do not care, even when life is at stake he will tell you he has no money

How did your extended family member help or refused to help you?

My uncle have broken my heart in various occasions but in two occasions where life was at stake was the height of his inhumanity to us.

The first occasion was when my father went for ruptured hernia surgery and he had complications after the surgery and there was a need for him to go back for a second surgery and it was an emergency and we needed money.

I can't forget that faithful morning that I called my uncle and he came to the hospital, he saw my father in his condition, my uncle said he will be back and till today he's still coming back.

I kept calling him and he didn't pick up, thank Jehovah for His wonderful organization our loving brothers and sisters came to my rescue and my father's second surgery was a success.

On the second occasion was when my younger brother was involved in a serious accident that almost took his life, my uncle still came to the hospital and saw his condition and he didn't bother to do anything, because of my first experience with him I decided not to call him and he never assisted us with anything till today.

On many occasions my rich uncle never cares to offer help because of what I don't know.

Do you think they were capable of helping you, but refused?

Yes my uncle is capable but refused to help, my uncle is one of the rich man that works with a company as a chief engineer and also has two large welding shop in Aba Abia state.
He has some landed property and keeps buying more property on daily basis.

Because of how you were treated by an extended family member, how do you see them?

Honestly that my uncle we are not that cordial when it comes to communication, tho we are not quarreling but I don't even remember if he exist, I only remember him in rare occasion like this.

What do you wish for them?

Well the bible says we should never repay evil with evil and that judgment belongs to God, so I wish him well I don't ever wish him bad.

Do you think you can survive without the assistance

The truth is that assistance helps most times but when there is no one to assist we have to struggle to get what we need.
My assistant has only been JEHOVAH God and I believe he's the best assistant one can ever have.
And I can testify to it that He has been assisting me any time am in difficulty.

Conclusion

It is so touching when you see your uncle or aunt who should be helpful and the person doesn't care, but I tell you one thing work hard you will get to thier level of life, never repay them back if possible offer them the needed help because they need to see how life should be.