ProWritersHub: Getting Help From Extended Family Members - My Story

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INTRODUCTION

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Hola Steemians y'all are highly welcome to my blog. As the topic implies I'll be discussing on how I received helping hands from my extended family member. My discussion will be majorly based on the below outlines:

• How I was helped by my extended family member and my challenge then.

• How do I see my relatives cos of how I was treated, what I wished for them and my opinion on whether I can survive without their aid.

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How I was helped by my extended family member and my challenge then


As humans we're cursed to meet difficulties even if it isn't a much burden. And most times we might not be able to solve those problems for sure we'll need the assistance of others. Many of us tend to get help from different persons or places, I mean friends, neighborhood, Church, family e.t.c, that's very certain. I've been so stranded in my life activity that even my parents couldn't help but thank God for the kind of extended family members I have.

When I was about entering the higher institution, my parents weren't financially able including myself. I was so worried about how I could make it but my Dad told me something which I can't forget, he said "Progress your own part is to pass your exams, don't bother about the fees". I can't deny the fact that I was strongly encouraged with those words that day.

I prepared seriously to write my Jamb and when it was time for that I did very well and God did it I got admitted into my desired institution. It was then time for Dad to play his own role as promised, I was happy and a bit surprised the day he gave me money to clear my fees. Not only the clearance settlement, I also bought some textbooks too from another money he gave to me after I requested.

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Here's the true and secret side of the story..😀. I asked my mom how come the money for all my school fees. She told me that before my Jamb exam Dad had already contacted his brother (my Uncle) who is financially stable and without query his brother told him that immediately I get admitted he should be aware. And that was it after I passed my Jamb exams, Dad went to inform him and he delivered as promised.

After Mom told me about all of these, I felt encouraged and I was triggered with a major reason why I need to be successful cos there are so many persons who need my help too also in the nearest future.

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How do I see my relatives cos of how I was treated, what I wished for them and my opinion on whether I can survive without their aid


Right from the start I have loved my extended family members so well, they're always welcome at home anytime they pay visit. My love for them increased right from when I started getting help from them. I'll use these medium as an encouraging ground, if you're reading this content make sure you take your relatives very serious and love them. Some persons don't like sharing things with their relatives since they claim that's their behavior, please if you have such behavior I'll advise you to stop it immediately, that's stinginess. I share things with them and since we help ourselves I pray for success for them anytime I pray for myself. I've always wished good to them.

Without the aid of my relatives I wouldn't have achieved somethings I have now. Apart from materialistic things even knowledge on how to do some certain things today were achieved from my relatives who brought out time to teach me those tactics. God bringing them to my aid has really helped me and everyone of us in my family.

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Conclusion


It's crystal clear that as human we should please keep peace with family members. At times friends might not help, you might end up being assisted by your relative. Please let's love them as there are reasons why it's necessary.

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Hmm I can see you have such a wonderful family. Also you created an awesome post, keep it up 🤝

 2 years ago (edited)

Yeah Kelvin I do have.. thanks for coming around.

 2 years ago 

Wow,your family really helped you in a good way both in cash and also in the words they said.

Nice post dear and continue creating quality contents here.

 2 years ago 

Yeah they do that's really encouraging. Thanks for showing up.

 2 years ago 

Okay dear.

 2 years ago 

@prolee. Positive story here. I have read about several people talking negatively about relatives. There are many of such real stories of their uncles and others not helping. But your uncle gave your dad the money and you used it to pay your school acceptance fee. I really appreciate your uncle and we want to have more kind people like that.

And remember to extend such kindness to others.

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 2 years ago 

Yeah he increased my love for him that very day. It was just as a result of love in my family, we're good at that. Thanks for the review.

Wow you are a nice person and your family members are good to you too.
What you said is very good always make you love relatives @prolee you have done well in this your content

 2 years ago 

She told me that before my Jamb exam Dad had already contacted his brother (my Uncle) who is financially stable and without query his brother told him that immediately I get admitted he should be aware. And that was it after I passed my Jamb exams, Dad went to inform him and he delivered as promised.

Look at it nau, he did it willingly without being nagged, your family deserve the love and respect, they've proven to be a strong backbone

 2 years ago 

True.
They've always been by my side, I can't forget that fact.

 2 years ago 

You owe them a whole lot for being there for you

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