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RE: Open Happiness (Week 3): Touching lives through Selfless Giving!
In my opinion, it isn't proper for a newly wed man to take his wife to the parents home to live together with them. First of all, the couple needs their privacy, and there's no privacy when you are still under the roof of the man's parents.
Secondly, there may be a misunderstanding (serious argument is the right word) between the bride and the mother-in-law. This in particular can tear the family apart. The man will be caught in the middle of all the drama.
But why would a newly married man still be under his parents' roof?
You guys talk as if the both couples will reside inside the grooms mothers room. For example if your dad has 15 bedroom flat you have a wife is it cool for you to go rent a 3bedroom flat outside??
It's just a common sense
My brother @kingcent, while I appreciate the fact that your idea will save cost but I think even if your father duplex or mansion it's better to live a distance away from your parents and care for your own family, if your father have another house that is not the exact house that he lives in you can move in to the apartment, if there are 10 marriages that the couples live together with there parents 9 among them are affected negatively is just a tree to maintain that initial peace with it wife and mother, in-law since most mother-inlaws expect perfection from there daughter in law and when there expectations are not met with they get irritated and that often give rise to problems at home.
Exactly my point @kingcent
Every marrige and every couple is soppose to live private so that they will be respect and having a successful marriage.
I feel as a man,you should consider your wife too and not just yourself . You need to seek her opinion as well cause she matters too @kingcent