SEC: S16W3: "Raising boys and girls"
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I am here once again to share my thoughts in this great week's edition of the SEC: S16/W3 in this great community. Here is my thoughts in details to my article.
The family is indeed an home and haven for the young kids. The boys and girls are fondly attracted to their hobbies. Hey tend to like one thing or hate the other. As they grow up they develop feelings for a particular movie,habit and so on. They live their lives having a goal.
Moreso, the enabling environment is crucial in moulding great individuals. These boys and girls love to learn fast, they learn verbally from body language from their parents or guardian, what the watch on the mass media and a whole lot, all these play a role in shaping their personalities. The way of training these kids is quite crucial and should be talked about.
Importantly, I do feel the boys and girls should be raised in quite different ways. The male figure head has naturally the act of being more hot headed, wanting to do their things the way they Wang and therefore by adding force it strict rules can be able to make them respect your opinion and do exactly your biddings. A typical african dad always have a "cane" to keep them in check when ever they misbehave and this is prevalent in adolescent kids.
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On the other hand, the females are ruled with less tense and a more different approach. They are weak in some way having soft emotions, therefore they should be rules in a soft way. Their mother have a culture of calling them in, asking them little questions to boost their emotional intelligence, while having little girls time of gossip
Futhermore, I feel the male children should be rules with more discipline and toughness because they tend to drift towards the way of sturbbonness. The female are fragile and could cry at any slight provocation. Therefore the approach should be different. This would draw a thin line between the two of them giving the men a sense if responsibility and the women their place in life.
However, if the males are trained softly in the manner a lady should be trained, they end up having likes for female stuff, drifting subconsciously to the love for girl stuff and girl talks. Perhaps they turn out to be lovers of the female gender and in worse case scenario try to switch their gender. Is that what we want for out kids? Your guess is as good as mine.
Therefore, all hands must be on deck to protect them, train them in the right way and make it a point of duty to see to it that most moments are shared with the kids, know their feelings get to know their thoughts, embrace their opinion while shaping the kids of individual you want from them. Maybe just maybe the great ones are yet to be born.
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Parents should interact with the child in such a way that the child can think of the parents as friends. Therefore, the role of father and mother in bringing up boys and girls is undeniable. Therefore, no distinction should be made.
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