Tell Your Story # 24( Betrayal Of Trust)

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Steem greetings to all the beautiful ladies in this amazing community, how are you all doing? I hope everyone is doing exceptionally well. I welcome all the ladies to another exciting edition of "Tell your Story season #24" and I'm glad to share my own story.

Earnestly speaking, I am pained,hurt and worried deep down from my heart of a man who betrayed me and I got to know it last week Friday, please sit with me let get to know what transpired the betrayal

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• What happened

I live with my aunt for some years ago and she has been of help to me and I also help her too because this life is help me and I help you. The husband is a renounced pastor and she is a federal government worker, you know what that means right? I was the one taking care of her three boys the husband is not usually available because of ministerial work and they usually transferred him from one state to another and the wife being a federal government worker, they also transfer her too to different state so I took the responsibility of talking care of the children and children hate corrections and discipline especially boys and when the first born misbehave the rest will join. I tried my possible best to ensure that this children in my hand live right because there's a rule in the house you don't beat their children no matter what they do, I have to wait for the parents to return so I usually report to the mum and will tell me that the foolishness abounds in the heart of a child... hmmmmmmmm,at this point I will just leave it. To cut the long story short ;

I Stayed with them got admission in the university and I left the house,ever since I left she had series of house help but they could not stay so during my year five in the university she called me to come to the house and assist her for one week because the husband was in Calabar and she was in Uyo and I went carry clothes for only one week after one week she begged me to stay and be going to school from het house and I did that, I must be sincere no one is perfect we use to have misunderstanding sometimes but we usually settle it. Fast forward to 2022 I went for service and I had intention of not going back to the house after my service year but I just share it my a sister and she I should go back because she also stay with her own sister,so after service in 2023 I went back to her house showed her discharge certificate and she was happy 😊😊.

I went to apply in a nursery school close to the house and I was given a job of seventeen thousand Naira, but sometimes I go home 13 thousand that was not and issue because she was buying food in the house but I realized that has I grow more demands and expenses increase, I usually send money to my dad every month depending on the income so I could cope with the nursery school I applied in another school, this time secondary school and I was offered the job with thirty thousand Naira and I pay transport six thousand every months excluding surcharge and deductions from the school . So what happened was that there's a man named bro Solomon a lesson teacher to my aunt son that usually come to the house to teach them I had a conversation with him through the fish farm I used to rear at the backyard of the house I know talked about business with him and how there's no job in the society and bro Solomon told me that work is very scarce that is friend that got a job pay half a million to get it and I told him that my aunt husband is in a better position to give me job that he knows big people in state due to his ministry wahoo 😀 😀, could you imagine bro Solomon went and told my aunt what I discussed with him and added sauce and jara

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Secondly, he also said that I said my aunt does not know how to train her children.. hmmmmmmmm, this was a discussion he asked me why the children just behave if that because if when he goes to school to teach them he will not be serious even his assignment he will not do and I told him children usually grow gradually that he was worse when they were children and sometimes is age that cause it. The man said a whole a lot of things to condemn and tannish my image.


I heard all this from my pastor last week Friday and my aunt has never asked me, this life is filled with jealousy, hatred,envy and strife , Bro Solomon that I thought is a family Man, matured that I was just gisting with would go and spark fire for me, but God will judge him

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• What you have learned from it

• Never to trust anyone no matter how free and close I am with the person

• I learnt that human beings and surrounded with jealousy and strife not to share family issues with outsiders

• I learnt that betrayal will never cease so that the word of God will come to pass even Jesus was betrayed by His disciples the one he shared cup with

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Thank You For taking your time to read my lengthy post, inviting my fellow ladies to also share their story are @eveetim @goodybest @uyaiuyo

Best Regards 😘

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 2 days ago 

Thank you for reviewing and patiently reading through my lengthy post, for enjoying my write up it has Spur me up to even be more committed in sharing my story

 2 days ago 

Hmmm, this can be painful. I believe your aunt should've asked you, instead of telling another person. I understand that "hear say" does pains a lot. For me, I think that bro Solo wetin should be confronted, or maybe just leave him alone.

No one should be trusted my dear, not even the closest person to you.

 2 days ago 

My dear sister, I couldn't bear it when I heard it I called him and he was busy beating around the bush,
My aunt likes believing what she heard outside without hearing from the both parties.
Everything now is God's hand and I learnt to trust nobody even my siblings