"Age Doesn't Matter"

in Steemit Philippines2 years ago (edited)

Hello my dear steemians, today I am confidently sharing my love story and I would love to write it in tag-lish so that I may be able to express it thoroughly and sincerely. I don't like telling my love story all over the world but this time, I guess I need to tell the world of my love story because it is worth sharing. Hope this inspires y'all.

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Love is unpredictable, sometimes we fall for unexpected people in unexpected moments. It is very natural that the majority of us have already set standards for our partners to be, they call it ideal man/woman but oftentimes cannot be achieved. We usually end up the other way around or completely not our ideal type/characteristics. It's because if you love a certain person, you don't have to answer the question "WHY" because true love needs no reason and sees no obstacle at all. So if it happens that you fall to the opposite of what you have desired then that is "True Love".

How did you and your partner meet?

Nagtatrabaho ako sa Jollibee almost 2 years already. That time to support my studies, I was already a crew trainer and isa sa trabaho ko ay ang turuan ang mga bagong hired na crew sa store. I was assigned to the kitchen area specifically in the pantry station. June 2016 and that period was peak season so our store hired more crew to assigned in different station. One month had pass and I had already produce effective trainees. I don't mind my surroundings ni wala ako masyadong kilala except nalang sa mga trainees ko at mga senior crew since medyo introvert naman akong tao. I am very passionate with my job and after work kailangan ko naman pumasok sa school kasi graduating ako that time so work and school lang talaga ang peg. Isang araw (Month of August na yun) while busy ako sa station ko, nabulabog ang aking pansin dahil sa mga service crew na masyadong maingay (may gatas pa kasi sa mga labi). One of my crew friend introduces me this boy and napakunot noo ako kasi ayaw ko yung binibiro ako. And as I take a glance to the guy to where they referring to na gusto daw makipagkilala sa akin mas na double yung kunot ng noo ko. E, kasi yung boy is nasa early 18 pa ata tas ako running 23 na. Nasapo ko yung ulo ko at napailing "itong mga batang to talaga" at binalik ko ang atensyon ko sa trabaho sa pag aakalang nang aasar lang ang mga mokong na yun. Kinabukasan nandoon na naman nagpapansin, pangiti-ngiti pa. Ayaw ko talaga e entertain, may itsura naman yung guy na nirereto nila, payat nga lang pero ayaw ko talaga sa mas bata pa sakin at yun ang big deal sa akin. The next day halos ganun parin habang ako medyo nagsusungit na at hindi na madapuan ng ngiti dahil sa inis at hindi ko na sila pinapansin kasi inis na inis na ako talaga, pakiwari hindi ko sila naririnig (dedma lang). Until the next day na naman wala nang nagpapanisin kasi sabi daw ng boy sa kanyang mga ka crew "wag pilitin ang ayaw" aray!! hahaha. Medyo naawa naman ako dun sa bata kaya kinakaibigan ko nalang kasi nag tampo e. So ayon start na ng pagkakaibigan namin, sometimes magsabay kami mag lunch break, nagchachat na rin kami at medyo nahulog na rin ako (charrr marupok).

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How does your first date go?

Our first date was not expensive (pamasahe lang dala namin hahahah) yet very memorable. Naka upo kami sa gilid ng dagat tanaw ang karagatan at giliw na giliw sa simoy ng hangin, nag uusap ng kung anu-ano. Nag share din sya ng mga flaws niya, mga nakaraan na ayaw na nyang balikan and his past were really painful (secret lang namin yun). And because of his past napasagot niya ako. OMG !! one click lang talaga di ko alam pano nangyari pero ang nasa isip ko is "I need to save him from all the aches from his past and I will do my best to make everything in him feels better ". So it was December 11, 2016 when we were officially in a relationship. Medyo naguguluhan pa talaga ako, ang bilis naman ng |"OO" ng ate hahaha sa isip ko naman (baka kailangan niya lang ng ate figure) pero ang alam ko kailangan niya ng shoulder to lean on kasi masyadong malungkot ng buhay niya at ang bata pa ng edad e mukhang mas matanda pa sakin e kasi maraming problema hahaha e ako baby face ako e (charrr) kaya di halata ang edad ko.

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What is your most memorable date or travel together

Isa sa pinaka most unforgettable experience ko with him was our trip to his birthplace (Zamboanga Del Norte), somewhere in Mindanao. It was the 2nd week of April last year (almost 1 year na pala). And that time we traveled together with our one year old baby boy ( Nag bunga na ang pagmamahalan hahah ). He introduced us to his whole family, relatives and friends (kaba to the next level talaga). Maganda naman ang pakikitungo nila sa akin, at home na at home rin ako kasi walang ka arte2 yung family nya, ang dali kausapin at walang masungit sakanila. Parang ayaw ko na ngang umuwi ng Cebu (hahahah). Naglakwatsa kami ng nag lakwatsa sa tabing dagat, may dakong bundok at walang katapusang road trip hanggang matapos ang vacation and we need to go home na talaga ( sad mood).

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Now, we've been going through ups and downs for almost 5 years and counting. Our relationship is like a roller coaster ride. Away bati- Away bati, because of our opposite perception in life. We are really opposite in many aspects and often times we fight in a very nonsense things dahil ayaw ko magpatalo at ayaw rin niya. Pero kahit ganun paman I am still looking forward na kami parin sa huli kahit paman sa malaking kaibahan namin ng prinsipyo at inspiration namin ang baby namin ngayun that serves as our hppy pill.

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That's all for today my fellow steemains hope you enjoyed reading my post. I'm inviting my friends to join this contest ma'am @rose0128, @glenicelou27 and @yoieuqudniram.

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 2 years ago 

uy yung first date ayos na ayos .. sarap kaya mag observe ng nature kasama ang mahal sa buhay.. stay in love!

 2 years ago 

Parang kaugalian na tagala ng mga boys maam na gawing date place ang tabing dagat or anywhere yung feel mo ang nature hahah

 2 years ago 

aaaw ang ganda pala ng istorya nyo sis. keep on loving each other. happy valentines day po

 2 years ago 

Hehhee salamat maam, wait ko po entry no heheh Happy Valentines too

 2 years ago 

Napakamemorable talaga ng date niyo. Yung inenjoy niyo lang yung moment with each other. Naniniwala din ako sa age doesn't matter. Kaya thank you sa pagbahagi ng love story mo! :)

 2 years ago 

Hahaha oo nga maam kaya minsan nahihiya akong e share love story namin kasi ako ang olats kasi mas bata sya sa akin.

 2 years ago 

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 2 years ago 

Wow, nature ang peg ng mag-irog! Memorable talag a kapag ang dating scenario ay nature. syempre, kilig effect ang dating at sarap namanamin. Kaya lang, dka ba love on the rebound??? Ingat mga magsing-irog. God bless.

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