Winner's aptitude [ Personal Development Content ]
To achieve the personal success you seek, your aptitude is the first thing you must focus on. Change your mindset about your aptitude. Define what you are apt for, to win or to stay ordinary? Learn not to underestimate yourself and discover your full potential.
If you have goals that you want to achieve, the right first step to take to reach them is to feel apt to do so. If your goal is, for example, to be an internationally recognized singer, firmly believe that you can be one. If you want it but you don't feel that you can achieve such a great feat, either because of financial problems, because of where you live, or anything else, someone else will achieve your goal in your place. And more importantly, if you want to do it but don't feeI apt to do it, you won't even try your best, and that's why you won't get it.
If you want to take control of your destiny and have the future you desire, to achieve it you will have to win in whatever you set out to do.And if you want to win, it will depend to a large extent on how apt you feel to win.
And don't confuse " winner's aptitude" with " winner's attitude". Don't listen to anyone who tells you that to win first you must act as if you have already won. It's not logical. The truth is that acting like a winner, when you haven't won, helps at first; but in the long run it only hinders a person's chance of success. I say this from experience. Sooner or later, those who fake a winner's attitude realize they are not winners and feel ridiculous; they come to their senses and tell themselves that chasing their dreams is nonsense; they throw in the towel and many never think about their dreams again.
This text will have served its purpose if you memorize the following:
Winner's attitude (without having won yet) = self-sabotage, pressure, stress and anxiety.
Winner's aptitude (feeling apt to win) = real opportunities to win.
An apt winner is not one who has already won, but one who is capable of winning. Are you capable of winning?
To be able to win does not mean that you must have certain necessary resources or certain knowledge to be able to start and succeed, it means that you do not doubt your capability to achieve something and that you will do what is necessary to achieve it. Always keep in mind that you are capable of winning and your desire to pursue your goals will never be exhausted.
You will achieve your goals depending on how much of the winner's aptitude you decide to attribute to yourself. I advise you to attribute the maximum.
Note #1: According to my blog and my usual content, I am an amateur digital artist. But personally I have other passions. Besides drawing, I enjoy reading books about personal development, entrepreneurship, and also a few books about financial intelligence. But there's more: I'm also very passionate about writing, and the topics I usually write about are the ones I read and learn about, so, having said that, I hope it explains the fact that I have published this kind of content out of the blue, when my usual content is artistic.
Note #2: This text is a translation made through the free version of deepl.com, so you have probably noticed grammatical inconsistencies and strange wording.