Depends on what you're saying to her. She's what, 3? 4? XD It's worse if they do that as teenagers because they're old enough to know better but when you're so self-righteous at that age logic what's that.

I think he understood or at least should be starting to, he is 11 this year and has finally gotten better about thinking long term (something that's apparently a real challenge with adhd so I'm calling it win XD).