Humans are social animals. So, it is very difficult for a man or woman to live single, away from the society. That's why we have families, friends and relatives. Families forms society and society is meant to protect and help its each members. Families are the basic units of the society. Family means where father, mother, children, grand parents and other close relative live together. It is believed that the members of the family are helping hands of the family who help and protect each other. In families, elders get comfort and service from the younger members, young members are guided by the elders, children are raised by the couples with the help and guidance of the elders. Some members earn money and other do household works. So, with the cooperation of each other, family life becomes an important thing for a human being.

But, everything is not so good in the modern families. We have nuclear families in which husband, wife and children live while elders have separate house. So, the couples are deprived of the guidance and expertise of the elders. Elders also live a lonely life and become frustrated. Children are deprived of love and affection of their grand parents. This is bad for the families and ultimately for the society.

Such kind of the family structure is the result of the modern concept of economy. Everything is linked with the economy. People have to work for others in their factories, offices and houses in order to get money. They have no other means to survive. But, doing job has many downsides. One is the destruction of family life. Husband and wife work for hours outside. They don't have time to spare together. Children have become big liabilities. Education, healthcare and child care facilities have become very expensive. So, people are finding it difficult to have children.

Other thing is the ultra feminism. Many people won't agree with me but it's a hard truth women these days don't find it comfortable to live with the parents of their husbands. For many women, husbands are not more than ATMs or debit cards. They freely wish to live on their husbands' income and don't like to do work at home. Laws also support them as when a woman gets divorce from her husband, she gets almost a large part (more than 50%) of her husband's wealth. No matter how poor her parents had been or she had seen poverty, but one thing is clear, whenever she gets divorce, she become rich. This is a bitter truth. I am again saying that I am not against women. I no women also have genuine problems. This post is about the women who are unscrupulous and selfish. So, the honest women should not get hurt from this post.

So, due to these reasons families are broken these days. Life is becoming very difficult for married men. I think men should not become a victim of women's selfishness. They must identify the women who are genuine and honest, and who are not so good. Do not let your parents suffer in order to please a bad woman. Do not become husband of a woman who is too greedy and arrogant. Otherwise, you'll have to lose your property as well as your mental peace.

Thank you!