What a beautiful reflection, it is true that the most important thing is to be ourselves, whatever the world and society say. Unfortunately, we have been raised with a mentality where it matters more what they will say and the different fashions than what we ourselves think. Fortunately there comes a point where we are able to decide if we care more about what they say or what we really are or want to be.
Yes, the environment where we grow up and the people who educate us sometimes do so with wrong values, feeding feelings that transform us into empty people.
Thanks for your comment, @franyeligonzalez.