Important Issues To Discuss Before Marriage As A Businessman - Part 4
Good day everyone! This is the Part 4 of this interesting, informative and educative series, titled, Important Issues To Discuss Before Marriage As A Businessman. If you have not read the Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3, I advice you to read it before going on with this article, by clicking here for Part 1, here for Part 2 and here for Part 3. Your spouse could make your life so happy and also can make your life a living hell. Marriage is way too delicate for entrepreneurs/businessmen as they need their emotions perfect at all time for them to perform well in their business/career. The need to have a good spouse and a working marriage is way too important for literally everyone. Hence, the need to discuss very vital issues before marriage is very essential for a successful marriage. But don't worry because I am here to share with you all, some important issues you have to discuss with your partner before marriage, so as to have a good marriage. In this article, I will be dropping one solid important issue that must be discussed before marriage.
Are You Both Really Committed?
This is one of the most important issue to be discussed before getting married to your spouse. A lot of people confuse amazing sex with love and feel they are in love with that person. Meeting that wild person that meets all your sexual desires could make you confuse what you feel for that person with love. You don't know the person that much but because the sex is great, you think he/she is your soulmate. Or you getting attracted to someone because of his/her money and not the personality of the person. A lot people fall into this trap and end up regretting and wishing they never married their spouse. You need to sit down with your spouse and talk with him/her concerning their commitment levels. Yeah, they may say Yes, I will be committed to you, but asked them some deep questions that will make them want to rethink their decision. Because you want the decision of your spouse to be true, honest and from his/her heart. Dating is quite different from marriage. You might not be 100% loyal to your partner and it should be acceptable, because you haven't put the ring on the finger, hence, there is a chance that you both might not get married. So, it will be unwise not to spread your net in the water to catch more fishes. But marriage is different, you have to be 100% loyal and faithful, because you have caught your fish, no need to fish anymore. Can you be loyal, faithful and love your spouse till death do you part? That's the question you ask yourself and your spouse.
Ask your spouse, okay, what if I don't have money again, will you stick with me? What if we don't have sex as often as we do, will you still stick with me? Because, let's face, as soon as kids come into the picture, the sex will reduce greatly, can you cope with that? This is a life long agreement, can you stick with me for the rest of your existence? These are important questions you should ask yourself and your spouse before getting married. I love that movie, Two And A Half Men, so I will bring back Allan's sad story to this series again(I hope you read previous articles, because it might be confusing here). Allan, isn't that good with woman, so he doesn't get much action(sex). He met a lady, the lady rocked his word. For days, they were having sex non-stop. At home and motel, it was like a dream to him. He decided to tell his brother, that he will take the lady to Las Vegas, so they can get married. His brother tried all he could to convince him not to go ahead with such a foolish plan, but he wasn't getting any of it. As he wanted to call the lady to tell her of his plan, the lady told him that her husband came earlier than expected that they won't be able to see again 😂🤣. Can you imagine, they were just having sex, and he doesn't know she's married, he doesn't know her name well, he doesn't know if she works or not, he literally didn't know much about her but he was ready to marry her because the sex was mind-blowing. You shouldn't make such a big decision of marrying someone because of the sex is great. A lot of people have fallen into this trap. You shouldn't confuse lust or great sex for love and affection. You don't want to marry someone, after a year, you can't bear living with the person, you either have a shitty marriage or a shitty divorce and either of them will affect you negatively. Avoid this unnecessary issues by discussing some important issues with your to be spouse before marriage
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Thanks @alokkumar121
Very well said. This are some important question to ask. And that's why many people marriage crashed because they just rush to the marriage without not agreeing on some certain things
A well said comment. Thanks for your comment @mandate
Hello friend, the truth is that having a good partner is important, and that things are clear from the beginning as well. Our partner should also be our friend, that person with whom we can share anything, with whom we can really be us. And of course before business he must be a good partner too, clear accounts keep friendships. Greetings!
That's very true. Thanks for your comment @franyeligonzalez
Successful business people usually have the problem of finding someone who loves them sincerely for who they are and not what they have to offer and then finding someone who is really committed will make the marriage journey easier.
Exactly. Thanks for your comment @papa-mensa