Greetings,
I agree with you that the concept of "it is a one in alife time thing" is completely incorrect and that this ideology will not make you wealthy. Instead, we must divide our earnings appropriately, such as spending, investing, and saving, so that we can do what we want while also having some money set aside for other important things in life.
Prioritizing is one of the most important things anyone can do to achieve financial stability and possibly riches.
It was a great read!