FAMILY SIZE

in Project HOPE5 years ago

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With all that is happening around us the hardship, poverty, increased in price of goods and services you will agree with me that the number of children you have will determine the kind of enjoyment and relieve you will have.

Gone are those days where people give birth to plenty children, as at old parents don't train their children to school they send them to the farm to work so the number of children and wives you have the bigger their farmland but now majority don't have farm and even when they do they still want to send there children to school for formal education, live a comfortable life, good cloth, good food, take them for vacation etc.

if these things are not meant it might have a negative health effect on the parent they start to think and worry on how to supply their child needs which if not control might lead to high blood pressure and on the child's part inadequate supply of necessary financial need might make them to be involved in things they don't want to do some goes into street Hawking, prostitution, steeling just to supply their basic need and some even suffer from inferiority complex and many sickness and disease all this thanks to the parents in most cases although not all.

imagining A and B works in the same company and earn equal amount of salary let say 10,000 naira A has two children making a family of four while B has 6 children making a family of 8 for family B each member has 1,250 naira to spend for a month while for family A each have 2,500 naira to spend a month who did you think will live well it is family A. for the sake of the child you try to bring to this world and yourself plan your family well so that you will be able to give your children the best life they want, don't allow them to go through the same pain and hardship you go through remember every child deserve a good and better life.

It is not how many you have that matters it is how many you are able to give a good and better life think about it.

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Without any doubt large families seem beautiful to me, especially if they are consolidated with emotional ties between all its members, however, they demand more money, effort and work, I agree with you in that you have to have economic strength, labor and emotional stability to have many children, thank you very good post

Your concluding sentence comprises everything so perfectly that I don't think that there should be further debate on it. And, I believe that a comprehensive and well-to-do parenting plan will do great for your child.