Hello friend @lanzjoseg.
Another extraordinary delivery related to the book of the great writer Dale Carnegie, an extraordinary approach the one raised by the writing and extended of right way by you, in fact as it expresses nobody likes to make orders, nevertheless, the key will be in the form as they make us see the things, therefore it is important to emphasize what it expresses:

Involving people seems like a good tactic because as long as you feel you are participating in the decision making you will not see that you are ordering anything.

Thank you for continuing to share such extraordinary content with all of us. Successes.