Greetings friend @ben-edom. The process to heal a wound pain, sadness takes time it is not easy to leave the sadness and pain aside it can take years to heal and possibly even a lifetime and it never heals it is always with you at all times even if you disguise it in a thousand ways, when you are not willing to forget and forgive it does not heal your pain, I say this from my own experience. Thank you for your support