It's the best way to fall in love with someone who can't be together

in rosecommunity4 years ago

How to love a person?

Of course, in any case, we should make it possible for each other to really come together. After all, it's never easy to meet someone you like. Even many people never meet one in their life.

Like to fight for, it is nothing, but the premise must be, you have to fight for the identity, your fight for meaningful.

If the person you love is not single at all, then of course you shouldn't rush forward. If he doesn't like you at all, then of course you should stop just enough. If you really can't be together, then of course you should stop in time.

When we were young, we always thought that if we love someone, there must be nothing to stop us. We can cross many obstacles and really walk together. But when we grow up, we will find that there is really some love and there will be no result.
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If one day, unfortunately, you just fall in love with a person who can't be together, no matter how much you love, you still need to be rational and don't make some drastic behavior.

As much as you can, feel the moment. ‍‍‍

There is a saying that love is something that you don't know how to start. Sometimes there are not so many reasons for you to like or dislike. When you look at each other at the first sight and in contact with each other, it is often determined.

And when you can decide who you want to like through your own instinct, but there is no way to decide your result. Although it seems a pity, you can still be quiet and happy for a long time.
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After all, like a person, and no one in the heart, that feeling is completely different.

When you like him, even if he doesn't like you, whenever you see him, you will still feel very happy. Whenever you don't see him, you will still miss him. Unconsciously, you will still look forward to your future.

At that time, no matter how he treats you, your mood is unique and belongs to you.

And that kind of feeling, you may not encounter several times in your life, so you might as well enjoy your favorite mood at that time, as for the future, you should not think so much.

Bury your love in your heart and learn to let go. ‍

When you love someone very much, for a period of time, you can really ignore the future and just enjoy the present, but after a period of time, you still have to face the fact that you can't get together at all.

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If you like, is destined to have a result, his future, is not destined to have a you, then in the wayward after, savor the taste of like, even if again reluctantly, you still have to let yourself sober.

There is no result, not worth you have been silly insist, there will be no result of feelings, no longer reluctant you still have to give up.

Since then, although you just like this, quietly hidden in the heart, only occasionally in leisure time, in the dead of night, secretly think about him, recall you at that time.

Nothing, love but not, that is the normal life, some people, do not ask for the final can walk together, in the best time, you can meet him, and his journey, that is enough.

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Originally, not everyone can accompany you to the end, some people appear in your life, but just to surprise your time and leave you some memories.

Say goodbye and start over. ‍

There are always some people, once loved a person, but each other did not go to the end, later, even if the two separate, she is not willing to accept who, will only keep their dust in the past.

Maybe some people will feel like this, it will appear very spoony, but in fact, it is just very silly.

Stubbornly miss an impossible person, it never has any significance, that person, he is your past, he will have his new life, you should also have other possibilities.

After leaving him, you can give yourself some time to calm down and not touch love, but after that, you still have to say goodbye to the past and start a new era.

Sometimes you always think that person is the best, it's really not how good he is, but it's just that you beautify the past, and never give other people the opportunity to experience a period of other feelings.

Time rolls forward. No matter what happened in the past, you still learn to look forward. When you can let go of the past and be willing to accept others, maybe one day in the future, you will meet a better feeling, which makes you instantly let go of the past.

You don't have to blame yourself for falling in love with someone you can't be with.

Since love, so in love with him, although you first love, even if not later, can love for a while, can have some experience together, it will be good.

You can give yourself some time to love, but this time, must not be too long.

Otherwise, too long, you will be more sinking, not easy to get out of it.

In life, we occasionally have to allow ourselves to do things that have no results, but we also have to turn back in time.

At the end of the day, you should be happy with him.

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