Steemit Engagement Challenge / SEC-S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life? "
Salam to all hope you all are doing well and enjoying your lives I'm.also good and here to participate in this Steemit Engagement Challenge / SEC-S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life? " Which is quite interesting because most of the time we not talking about children's mental health and their problem so it's a good way to discuss about it.
What are the problems faced by children, & which are all childhood traumas?
If we talk about childhood trauma, there are some things that we may not even know and children keep inside and go through such a reality that they can understand on their own, but I guess this thing. I can because I have been teaching for 12 years and have only taught young children so I know the trauma that children go through if they have a problem at home or if they don't have a good childhood he has some problems from his parents and many reasons come up.
The biggest reason is that these parents are not able to understand them properly, what they are trying to say. Maybe they need them, at that time, the parents are not available to them, and scolding too much and being too strict is a trauma for them, and the children want to say something that the parents don't want to hear. And all these problems, as far as I have observed, there can be many more, like they are being naive, they are underestimating themselves, they are not confident with others.
How to protect children from social bullying?
We can save our children from social bullying in such a way that, first of all, you give them such a conference that you are not less than anyone and that you are a complete human being and that you are standing behind them and that you are their support. This thing alone gives them a different facet but that everything should be in a balance and teach children to respect others so that they respect themselves and respect others as well and teach them that they are good and bad. Teach them to distinguish what is good for them and what is bad for them and keeping an eye on them is a very good very important thing that you feed them well but also keep a good eye on them. Keep track of what they are doing, who they are with, who their friends are, how their gatherings are, so I think this thing can save them from social bullying and should give them awareness of good and bad. The thing should be guided and should be audible to them.
How to educate our children about good touch and bad touch?
I think this awareness is very important for children in today's era because you don't know what others thoughts are about your children and especially if we are talking about girls. Today, even boys are not saved in some places, so we must give our children this awareness that who really loves you and who is wrong, if you are showing love to you, then it is good. What is a bad touch? Children should know from the beginning that a parent's aunt's and aunt's grandmother's touch. touching you is good but if someone is touching you wrongly then you should be aware of these things and nowadays we see in many areas that wrong things happen to children and Unfortunately, they are from their own family, so it is very important to explain this to the children. If you are a teacher, you should tell your students. You can also tell your children and to other children in your family.
What do we have to sacrifice to raise a good child?
Being a parent you have to make a lot of sacrifices and sometimes it is necessary that you have to make that sacrifice. You have to give a lot of time to them. You have to give and you have to make time for them, so I think that it is not easy to be a parent, how many parents kill their desires and but parents are making so many efforts to give a good education. and so that their future life will be very good, then you are not able to find time for yourself, you want to do your job, you are not able to do your job, you want to start your career. If your children are young or old, whatever age they are, you have to give them time.
This is it for the challenge I hope you will like it and thank you for your time to visit I would like to invite my three friends here @sualeha @paholegs @arshani for participation ❤️
Kind regards: @kunwal
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@kunwal Your profound insights into childhood traumas and the challenges kids face are truly commendable. As an experienced teacher your understanding of the impact of strictness and lack of parental understanding on children mental well-being is invaluable. I appreciate your emphasis on building confidence and teaching kids to differentiate between right and wrong. Your advice on protecting children from social bullying and educating them about good touch and bad touch reflects a genuine concern for their safety. Best of luck in the contest
Thank you so much dear for your valuable feedback 😊✨
We can save our children from social bullying in such a way that, first of all, you give them such a conference that you are not less than anyone and that you are a complete human being and that you are standing behind them and that you are their support.
This thing alone gives them a different facet but that everything should be in a balance and teach children to respect others so that they respect themselves and respect others as well and teach them that they are good and bad.