“Pick a Word, Paint a Story."

Hello my steemian friends,

This is my participation in the contest” “Choose a word, write a story” hosted by, @senehasa in Hindwhale Community

MY TOPIC IS DREAM

I also want to invite here @m-fdo, @pahlags, @haidee and @tammanna

There will be many entries in this competition, and it is possible that many of them will also write on this topic "dreams". But today I will try to write my entry a little differently, in this I would like to discuss our state of mind after our dreams are shattered and their solution.

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We all have a habit of dreaming, one dreams are those which we see while sleeping at night, some of them remain in our memory, and many dreams we forget. But the other dreams are those which we see with open eyes, dreams of what we want to do, what we want to become, dreams of fulfilling our hopes.

But it is not necessary that all the dreams of everyone get fulfilled. And the sudden breaking of such dreams hurts the heart. The more we try not to grieve, the more the pain increases. But the loss of one of our dreams is like the loss of a love.

The missed wedding, the vacation that we had planned. The job opportunity that slipped away. Not being able to spend time with our grandchildren.

That child of the house who left before his life could even begin, whose dreams were snatched away by illness and disease. Rules and laws are breaking our spirits and we are seeing our dreams going away.

But life doesn’t end when our dreams are shattered. We shouldn’t go into depression, we should accept the loss and move on. We allow ourselves to grieve too much when our dreams are shattered because we think we have no solution. Maybe we have changed.

In such a case, talk to a friend, or consult a counsellor or a spiritual advisor. Or other people you know who have gone through the same shattered dreams.

Social media has its benefits too. Join groups of like-minded people. Stay away from negative people. And remove friends and followers who bother you. Only keep in touch with those who understand your mental state and offer sympathy and support.

Think positive thoughts to yourself and everything will be fine’ and definitely stay away from ‘Why are you experiencing this now?’.

Remove, block people from your circle who are going to help you get stuck in a cycle of guilt or powerlessness. Yes, there is a time for introspection. But when we are in a state of grief, this kind of thinking really hurts us.

The grief of broken dreams is very difficult, so remember that we do not have to do it alone, sharing your grief makes the grief lighter. This grief should be shared only with those people who are your true well-wishers.

Slowly we will forget our sorrow, there is no better healer than time. New paths will open. New dreams will slowly appear again. And there are always rainbows ahead but let them reveal themselves to you. They will surely reappear when we accept our grief and stop fighting the pain.

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.

Sur-riti❤️