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There is always an after if we are alive, and if we are not, the after no longer matters.
The present moment is the most important, and my son and I enjoy it as best we can. God willing, we will have a better future soon.
Many adornments will come for our hearts, which is the most important thing in our lives, my dear friend, Kitty.

One can also have a future where one is no longer able to celebrate or undertake something, and that's why memories are important. You wouldn't have them if you would only care about today, but I do understand what you mean to say..