Daddy, What is War?

in WORLD OF XPILAR3 years ago

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Apparently, many of you are tired of posts and articles about the war in Ukraine. I didn't plan to write about it, but I can't write about anything else now. I cannot write carefree and cheerful posts when a brutal, large-scale war is going on in my country. I sincerely believed that humanity had already developed to such a level that there could be no ordinary state attack on the state with the onset of thousands of tanks, artillery shelling, rocket fire, air strikes and landing. That's why the WORLD OF XPILAR Community Blogosphere Magazine is not published now. Honestly, I don't have time for Steemit activity at all.

I also apologize if I did not respond to your comments.

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The night of February 24 was restless. There was a lot of information that Putin was about to declare war on us. I foresaw that it would be tonight, which is why I woke up every hour and watched the news on the phone.

Once again I woke up at 05:11. After reloading the news page, I immediately saw a large red sign reading "PUTIN DECLARED WAR ON UKRAINE." This news immediately caused a wave of emotions in me, my heart was beating at breakneck speed. The first thought: "How to save my child?".

In a second, I read the following news: "Explosions can be heard in cities all over Ukraine." And just then I heard a terribly loud sound of the plane. It seemed that he was circling at a height of only a few meters. This plane, or several planes, probably made a few laps, because the loud sound of the engines was heard for about 15 minutes.

Then, somewhere far away, there were sounds like explosions.

I later learned that a missile strike had been carried out at the nearest airport. Our intelligence knew about the strike, so it blew up military planes in advance so that they would not be damaged.

That day, as always, I went to work. Our chemical plants are an excellent target for a missile attack, so as soon as martial law was declared in the country, we began work to shut down the plants immediately.

After work I returned home. My daughter wanted to go for a walk with me. I said that it is dangerous to walk now, there is a war in the country. She asked, "Daddy, what is war?"

How to explain to a child what war is? I still haven't even told her we're all mortal...

When it got dark, loud sirens sounded everywhere. It was an air alarm. We quickly went to the shelter. But what is this shelter? No one was preparing for such events. Our shelters are basements, cellars or just some kind of pit.

This time we heard nothing. After some time, the air alarm was lifted. But we realized that we would need shelter now, so we started arranging them. The work lasted until late at night.

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The night was sleepless. We were constantly watching the news and watching the attack of troops on our territory. The Russians came to free us. From whom? From ourselves? From the government we chose for ourselves in the democratic elections? What is our fault? That we want to decide our own destiny? We want to decide for ourselves who to be friends with. We want to make mistakes ourselves and learn from our mistakes.

The next day (February 25) I went to work again. We tried to make our chemical plants safe as soon as possible. We freed them from all dangerous substances. Now they can be bombed, nothing bad will happen.

We were all called by military enlistment office staff. I am not interested yet, because I have no experience of combat operations. Some of my colleagues went to war.

In the evening there was another air alarm, the child was scared again and I took tears from her eyes again.

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Refugees have been coming to us en masse since Saturday, February 26. The people of our city are united, all working to build shelters. Everyone brings blankets, warm clothes, food, money from home.

Unfortunately, sabotage groups come with the refugees. We had to organize special search teams that constantly patrol the streets and report suspicious people to the police.

Air alarms have become regular.

People are actively supporting the army. Who has experience in combat operations goes to war or enters the territorial defense. Someone makes Molotov cocktails. Someone is weaving camouflage nets.

Today I transferred part of my money to the needs of the army. My company bought metal and I make anti-tank hedgehogs together with other employees.

This war is a people's war. All people are doing everything possible to protect the country.

I was lucky. Where I live, there have been no active battles. People from Kyiv, Kharkiv, Sumy, Chernihiv and other cities are going through real hell. They can tell such horrors that it is better not to know about... And a week ago we discussed which pizzeria bakes tastier pizza...

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I know that many readers, especially Russians, will not like this post. But I am writing what we are going through now.

By 1939, Russia was already occupying western Ukraine. My grandmother told me about the events of that time. In those days the people came up with the saying:

We have been "liberated" and there is nothing we can do about it.

Now they want to liberate us again. Most Russian society supports the actions of its president, some do not, but like sheep listen to his orders. The war on TV is probably a very interesting spectacle.

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 3 years ago (edited)

Hi Oleh, so sorry to hear about the war.
Best wishes for you all.

 3 years ago 

Thank you, you are very kind. I have no words.

But we are still relatively safe. I hope that I will not have to take my wife and child out of the country. Personally, I will not leave, I will defend myself. Just in case, I wrote down your e-mail address. You'd better remove the email address from the comment to avoid receiving spam.

 3 years ago (edited)

good, I removed the part with my email, good advise. I hope you are safe and if you need anything send us an email!

Don't worry about whether you have time for "the Steem". Please write what you experience when it is appropriate. Record it for you and for us. We need information that doesn't come from the newspaper or a TV station. And first and foremost, please take good care of yourself! You cannot explain to a child what war is - but it understands better than you know. Feel embraced!

Mach Dir keine Gedanken, ob Du Zeit für "den Steem" hast. Schreibe bitte, was Du erlebst, wenn es sich anbietet. Halte es für Dich fest und für uns. Wir brauchen Infos, die nicht aus der Zeitung kommen und nicht von einem Fernsehsender. Und in erster Linie paßt Du bitte gut auf Euch auf! Du kannst einem Kind nicht erklären, was Krieg ist - aber es versteht das besser, als Du ahnst. Fühlt Euch umarmt!

 3 years ago 

Thank you very much! I think this war is firmly engraved in the minds of every Ukrainian, so I will definitely write about it more than once. The closer we get to the end of the war, the more I can write on Steemit.

 3 years ago 

It doesn't matter how often I speak to you, how much I read, how much I learn from you, how much I try to understand, it is impossible for me to begin to understand what you're going through. What your family's going through.

Similar to romanie's offer, the point at which the UK government finds a way to stop being so racist, my offer of finding some way of helping is here too - el-gorila-es@hotmail.com

It's one of many shitty email addresses I needed to create to claim one of my many alter-egos - ping me an email when you can and I can share one of my real email addresses with you 🙂

I look forward to another boring update when you have the time to do so. And I apologise in advance, but I can't let you mention anti-tank hedgehogs without sharing this with you again.

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 3 years ago 

I look forward to another boring update when you have the time to do so.

I couldn't write to you last night, because lately I have to spend a lot of time in the bomb shelter :) Today I will try to write about the latest news in the afternoon.

Steemit has amazing people, they are happy to offer help. I will write to you because I do not know how events will unfold. I may need to save my family. Personally, I plan to stay.

Nobody will win in War, the fact of any war is devastation, on both sides mothers will lose their children and it will be only sorrow. All wars we led by dictators and we know the results, I wish you to stay safe and only wish that the leaders will come to an agreement to stop this madness.

 3 years ago 

Thank you very much! You know, no one in Ukraine wanted a war. And 5 o'clock in the morning on February 24 was a shock and despair for us. We did not understand how this is possible. There will be a second round of talks today, but everyone knows that they will be fruitless again. It's a pity we really want peace.

@o1eh Friend, you are passing by, the hours are eternal for you, a new dawn must be a triumph for you, as a father I understand you, poor children, live these moments, how selfishness and the feeling of power of some people can destroy and end so many people, I hate politics, where are those great conversations to protect rights, they are all jokes, I don't know if my prayers will be enough and my words to wish them to be optimistic will soon end, they are strong I know they will succeed, but it is my heartfelt desire!!! Greetings and Blessings.

 3 years ago 

Thanks! Prayers are the greatest power. Pray for us!

 3 years ago 

War is totally absurd. I am very sorry for what Ukraine is suffering and I greatly appreciate the courage of its soldiers and heroes defending their country from barbarism. Ukraine is a sovereign country, I hope that soon the war ends and the families separated by these circumstances can be reunited. Thanks for sharing and have a happy day.

 3 years ago 

Thank you for your support. God bless you!

We are very sad and worried. It is one of the most suffering questions a child can ask... There is no winner in the war! There is nothing more painful than people who had to leave their homes, children in shock, the fear of losing their loved ones, and seeing their country under bombs. We stand with the people of Ukraine. Try to keep your hope alive. We hope this war ends as soon as possible.

 3 years ago 

Thank you for your support. In Steemit I met so many caring people! Your support is important for our people.

There is no winner in the war!

I completely agree with you on this. Many military and civilian people have already died in this war.

Sorry, we had such a hard time even reading these. Living must be awful. Hope these days end soon

 3 years ago 

Thank you. The sixth day of the war is going on, but for us it is an eternity.

Ciao @o1eh . Sono sconvolta da quello che la tua gente sta vivendo. E' tremendo e assurdo . Le immagini che ci arrivano dalla televisione ci mostrano i segni di una cattiveria inaudita nei confronti del tuo popolo che spero finisca presto,. Stai attento e raccontaci, se vuoi , le tue tristezze. Siamo con voi, un popolo grande che sta dando una lezione di coraggio a tutti noi. Un grande abbraccio dall'Italia.

 3 years ago 

Thank you. Ukraine has received support from the peoples of the world. Our people are very grateful to you. We feel it. Even in my small town, we started receiving humanitarian goods with medicines and various things for refugees. These goods come from different European countries. Thank you for your every word. Thank you, Italy, thank you, World!

This is the type of post i prefered to believe compared to the big screen media. I hope you are safe there. If I were in your situation, maybe all I could response to my child's question would be tears and hug... 😪

 3 years ago 

I hope you are safe there.

Thank you, so far we are lucky.

maybe all I could response to my child's question would be tears and hug

The child has already understood everything. I recorded a few songs for the kids on the phone, we try to have fun in the shelter :)