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RE: Writing as Catharsis — Freedom of Expression

in WORLD OF XPILAR10 months ago

It sounds very familiar. I doubt people are that social. Playing alone, not sharing toys or candies is what two-years old are punished for. The result is always sacrificing, being surrounded by noise, loud people screaming for attention.

That's the nice thing about blogging you can be as brutally honest and straightforward as you wish

That's how I see it too and I wrote it several times: I can write what I like since no one reads me anyway.
The same way I see internet. The opportunity to be yourself, no need to lie or cheat. It's take it or leave it. How great is that?
The opposite happened and everytime I wonder why. Why not being yourself even if it's your nasty, ugly self. No one cares. The most important thing is to be, without faking.

Forced faking is the ticket to doctors and madhouses. Burnouts, depressions, low self-esteem. The advice in the end will always be: accept yourself, speak out, defend your boundaries and learn to say NO.
And back we are at 2 years old punished for saying NO, setting boundaries, speaking out and saying: hands off this is my car, my toy, book, my candy.

Autism? I have strong doubts about all those labels and how the gradations and meaning of words are changed.
To me it sounds as if a small group if (sick) people loves to get rid of groups of people.

The damage done to many is due to sick raising, labelling, vaccination and keep spreading fear. Today everyone who doesn't agree is a terorist, mad scientist, conspiracy whatsoever, autistic, ADHL and the rest of the alfabeth its combinations of letters.

I can only feel pity for all those shouters. It's good to live far away from the never ending figgts to be the best and being noticed.

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 10 months ago 

I suppose that is just life, this seemingly constant stream of contradictory rules and advice we're getting... most of it far more reflective others' desires and needs to control than any sincere wish for the people they advise to have actual better lives.

Growing up in a stereotypical Scandinavian family — distant and emotionless — as a highly feeling little kid meant I often skated on the edges of what was considered hysteria or — at the very least — being "troubled."

It was not a comfortable world...

 10 months ago 

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I am not sure if this is typical for scandinavian families, within my family the only thing I heard was: facts.. feelings are not important if you have facts you can return and we discuss. This is more likely the result of the academic/medical family and the effects of the Japanese concentration camp.

Was it pleasant? No. I am glad I left and grew old.

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