RE: Valentine's day gift for my friends
I think it's been a long time since someone didn't appreciate something I made. The main reason is that my circle of friends has shrunk considerably. Besides, we know exactly who likes and appreciates what. I have very few friends, and they're all creative people.
At one point, when I wasn't sure when giving a gift, I said, "If you don't like it, just tell me, and I'll keep it."
I think your roses are particularly beautiful, and it's strange that these fake friends, because that's what they are, aren't being honest. Maybe they think it's inappropriate that you gave red roses? Sometimes it's culture or upbringing that makes people dislike something. What I find most shocking is that they deliberately left the roses at the restaurant. I'd love to see how you made them.
Thank you so much for your kind words. You really saw me. That means more than you know. You are right about everything. I think deep down I already knew they were fake friends. But sometimes we dont want to admit it because it hurts. We want to believe the people we care about care about us the same way. But your words gave me strength to see the truth clearly. I love what you said about your circle of friends shrinking. That is actually a good thing. It means only the real ones stay. I want that. I want friends who create things like me who understand effort who say hey if you dont like it just tell me and I will keep it. That is such a smart and honest way to be. I am going to start doing that too. I still remember last year One of them once accepted a real flower bouquet from another friend and they kept it safe. They even posted it online. But my handmade ribbon flowers they forgot at a restaurant. That hurt the most. Not because I want to compete but because it showed me where I stand. My effort didnt matter. The price tag did. Thank you for asking about how I made them I learned it from Pinterest. I would love to show you. I will take photos next time. Thanks again you helped me feel less alone today. Thank you for that. Keep being the real friend that you are. The world needs more people like you.
I've personally broken with a large number of fake friends. I say fake friends because I see people who are only there when they're in trouble or need something, even creatively, not as friends. It's better not to invest energy in them. Being used and learning to deal with that also takes energy. That energy is better spent on yourself.
When you plan to give something, ask yourself if the recipient would be willing to do the same for you. If not, they're not friends (and being poor isn't a reason not to reciprocate). I think the answer in most cases would be no. If you do feel the urge to make something, do so and keep it for yourself, or give it away with the words: "If you don't like it, no problem, I'll keep it for myself!"
I would also like to point out that when you use other people's photos, ask permission and cite the source. Otherwise, it's plagiarism.
You're very welcome to join the CCC community @hive-166850 or, if you're artistic and creative, join Art & Artists @hive-120695.
Your work must be original.
I wish you a wonderful, creative day (you also need to be creative in your interactions with people).
I hope you feel less lonely.
Can you tell me if you use a translator?
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful message. I really appreciate it. You are right. I have also learned that some people only come around when they need something. It hurts but it also teaches us who truly cares. I am learning to save my energy for myself and for people who truly value me. I love your advice about making things and keeping them for myself if people do not appreciate them. That is a beautiful way to protect my heart and my creativity. Thank you for inviting me to the communities. I will check them out. And yes I do use a translator sometimes. It helps me write better.
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It's fine if you use a translator if it helps but mention it underneath your post since translators can also make, whatever you post or comment, look like AI generated text.
Note that it's better to write something short and good than AI generated text. There are plenty of creative contests not asking for long epistels (most here will not read it anyway).
I wish you a good time.
Thanks for the tips I’ll keep that in my mind and post my blog short and original.
It's a pleasure. I hope to read you soon.
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