Think before you speak...

We should keep a little filter before speaking. Before giving our opinion to someone, before talking to anyone, and before telling someone what is right or wrong, we should at least pause and think about what we are saying and why we are saying it.
Having a filter does not mean that we should lie or say something wrong just to please people. It simply means that we should express our thoughts in a way that does not hurt someone and still helps them understand what we mean. Our words should not take away someone’s comfort or make them feel bad about talking to us.

Many times, in the name of being straightforward, we say things in a harsh way that end up hurting the listener. Not everyone replies or argues back. Many people stay quiet out of respect or because they don’t want to create a scene. But that silence is not our victory; in fact, it can be our loss. Sometimes people stop responding not because they have nothing to say, but because our words made them uncomfortable.
When this happens, the respect or image they had of us in their heart slowly fades away. And sometimes they may not even want to talk to us again.
That is why it is important to think before speaking. We can be honest and still be kind. If someone has given us the space and trust to talk to them, we should value it and speak with care and respect.
A few thoughtful words can keep a relationship strong, but careless words can quietly damage it.