A very good topic which is amazing and interesting as well specially for who are in their teen age, effort help you to achieve your goals, the other name of life is effort,the only thing that will get you to know from beginning. Everyone puts effort what they want and sometimes we get it, but sometimes no matter how hard we made effort we didn't found any result if its in not in your destiny.Effort is needed in every aspect of life whether you are working, studying or in a relationship.Effort help you to learn, succeed or growth and its all about the journey of life and also provide you self-improvement , strong bonds,Understanding mental health and stable relationship with your loved ones. I remembered one of my neighbor's daughter who have been married since 2020 and she was very happy as other said but didn't saw her happy eyes which we used to be seen because she was my friend and neighbor and we are quite closed but not really but sometime when we meet we talked about some issues. In 2022 era wherever we met i feel she was strange and clumsy and didn't give attention to anything and I wondered when she became so clumsy? Everytime just in own world. I was curious and worried at the sametime.

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But few months before I found out that she decide to divorced. She was not happy with her, and i didn't see smile on her face from the past few years. When I tried to talk to her, at first she refused, but then she told me that she was oy one who make effort all the time and her husband's effort was completely 0%. She said its our duty to run the relationship because is very important and if you don't put effort, your relationship will break. She said that I am tired of putting up my all effort from the beginning. and I have to take care of them but my kids kids also be disturbed and suffer with our damage relationship and its not good for their mental health to watch us everday fight so it is better for me to separate. After that, I understood the fact that in some places, we can put Effort, if there is a job, we can make a effort and one day make ourselves successful, and in some relationships we put effort and want other person effort as well. If the next person does not put effort, it is better to end. I was quite surprised that her husband didn't try to make an effort neither for himself nor for his wife nor for his children nor for his house. If he made such a small difference, he could have saved his home, improved his life.

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