#CLUB5050 || A CALL FOR RESOLUTION ON DEBATE 🇨🇲🇨🇲 || by @b-naj

Photo^Source edited by @b-naj, using PixelLab

Esteem greetings to all steemians as always. Remember, respect is a very unique virtue which can't be swayed towards one end.
Having said that, this post is branched from the broad header #lifestyle. No tree on its own can be addressed as a forest; similarly, a flock's lifespan primarily depends on having a shepherd.

^{THIS POST WAS CREATED IN RESPONSE TO A LITTLE CHALLENGE I STUMBLED UPON IN OUR COMMUNITY, AND THIS IS THE WAY I KNOW BEST TO DISH OUT A WORD OR TWO}

I called it a little challenge because it has a solution.

I took out time to read through, as well as tried my best to see from both sides, and the truth is, both parties are at fault
Permit me drop the link to the post which i am referring to, so that we all get to oscillate uniformly.

What aches the most is the fact that, some members in here are making matters worse by taking sides. I tell you all now that which ever side you chose, I can table a case to speak on why you are at fault. To crown it all up, you all choosing sides and stirring up this misunderstanding, know that you are not completely correct because both parties have fallen short throughout this debate. Yes! I would address this whole issue as a debate, and not a fight as some might have labelled it to be.

It pains me so much knowing that both parties are very close to me, not that I knew them personally per say, but mainly because I know their degree of works and efforts towards the growth of this our community.
From my on perspective, I'd address this issue, relative to the ethics, concepts and lifestyle via which I sprouted out of. As such, I'd love to believe that most than few in here, at some point in time must have experienced the example I intend using.

I said move to the other side because truth be told, most members' analysis have swayed to one direction by now; so while reading, sway to the other side for just a moment and debate against your current side, genuinely. You will see that both sides are faulty, and a need for a meet up between both parties is a necessity.

My Example From A Regular Experience

My best friend is my Mum, I love her so dearly. Trust me when i say she is far from being perfect, but she is giving her all (positive or negative) with my best interest in heart. She has without a doubt, made great sacrifices as well as gone the extra mile, just to make sure I become a success. If I fail, she automatically has failed, and if I succeed, she practically becomes my Mama Promo.

Just like any other human being on this earth, she has her flaws and short comings, but I best know not to reprimand her in public (because she is my mum and I respect her so much), but I always do so within a confined and safe room, where I can vent out my frustration and recommend another approach/solution. I did so for anyone who was/is my elder, not necessarily my mum. This is because even I hate to be reprimanded in public, especially by someone dearest to me.
90%+ of the times I reprimand my mum privately, she would play her trump card (being my mum and shutting me off). I used to get quite frustrated, but it's very understandable since she is not in a calm state upon approach. She eventually revises my views and sees my point, no matter how small. Bottom line, our situation most often than never, gets a solution with such methods of approach.

On my mother's part, she always seeks advice from her most reliable, me 😅. Not because I'm her son, or any reason that could sway my judgment in her favor; but mainly because I am a neutral person, no matter the parties involved. I never come to point out who is right and who isn't (because this only stirs up the problem even more😥), rather I try to find a common ground and propose solutions.
Sometimes she would chose not to bring an issue to me because she knows I will reprimand her. For this reason, she holds me at the highest esteem. I reprimand her because i love her, and do so in private because i respect her. Doing this with love and respect in mind, she give me a listening ear always, and even tables some of her issues before me for solutions to be debated on.🤷🏻‍♂️

All this won't be possible if my mum chooses not to recognize that she is human and is subjected to faults. Similarly, if I didn't table the issue with respect (privately), then we would go around in circles and if the matter gets evaluated, I would be seen by many as a bad and disrespectful child for sure.

I humbly call on us the members, i am practically begging us all, because i know deep down, from where we all stand, we are the best chance for a genuine resolution to be set in motion between our beloved @thegreens and @chiabertrand. It is really amazing how this is my very 1st post in this our lovely community, for this year 2022.

^{IF YOU STAND FOR A RESOLUTION TO RESOLVE THIS DEBATE BETWEEN @thegreens (together with his team) and @chiabertrand (without further hurtful words from both parties), PLEASE DROP A COMMENT (not to take sides again) WITH THE CAPTION RESOLUTION ON DEBATE.}

Please let's make a constructive contribution to move forward. We all are humans, and are subjected to errors.

I urge everyone to make constructive comments here please. I pray and hope we move pass this soonest.

A big thank you to all who read this post. Thank you in advance, for making a constructive comment to support the RESOLUTION ON DEBATE, and paving the way for a better and even stronger @steem-cameroon.

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@shance-light
@majerius
@benjamin09
@saxopedia
@wase1234
@fombae
@graciella