Domestic Violence Is Not Just Physical: The Hidden Reality in Cameroon.

Hi guys, compliments of the season from the motherland, Cameroon and welcome to my blog for another awareness post about the hidden reality of domestic violence.

Domestic violence is often misunderstood as only involving physical abuse such as beating or hitting. In Cameroon, as in many other countries, this narrow understanding has left many victims suffering in silence. Domestic violence goes beyond physical harm; it includes emotional, psychological, sexual, and economic abuse. These non-physical forms are just as damaging and can leave long-lasting scars on individuals, families, and communities.

In many Cameroonian households, emotional and psychological abuse is common but rarely recognised. This includes constant insults, humiliation, threats, and intimidation, often justified as “discipline” or “normal marital issues.” Women, and sometimes men and children, are made to feel worthless through harsh words, public embarrassment, or being constantly compared to others.

Over time, this abuse destroys self-esteem and can lead to depression, anxiety, and even suicide. Because there are no visible bruises, society often ignores this type of violence, allowing it to continue unchecked.

Economic abuse is another form of domestic violence that affects many families in Cameroon. This happens when one partner controls all financial resources, denies the other access to money, or prevents them from working or continuing their education. In some cases, women are forced to depend entirely on their husbands, even when they are capable of earning an income. This dependence traps victims in abusive relationships because leaving would mean facing poverty, homelessness, or rejection by family and society.

Sexual violence within the home is also a serious but hidden issue. Many people believe that marriage gives automatic consent to sex, making it difficult to acknowledge marital rape. In Cameroon, cultural and traditional beliefs often silence victims, especially women, who are expected to obey their husbands at all times. Forced sexual acts cause deep emotional trauma and violate basic human rights, yet they are rarely reported due to shame and fear of stigma.

Children are also victims of non-physical domestic violence. Growing up in a home filled with insults, threats, and fear affects their mental and emotional development. They may struggle in school, develop aggressive behaviour, or normalise violence, continuing the cycle into the next generation.

Addressing domestic violence in Cameroon requires changing mindsets and educating communities that abuse is not only physical. Religious leaders, traditional authorities, schools, and the media must play an active role in raising awareness. Stronger laws and better enforcement are also necessary to protect victims and hold abusers accountable. Support services such as counselling centres, hotlines, and safe spaces should be more accessible.

In conclusion, domestic violence in Cameroon is a complex issue that extends far beyond physical harm. Emotional, psychological, sexual, and economic abuse are equally destructive and must be recognised as serious forms of violence. By acknowledging these realities and working together as a society, Cameroon can take meaningful steps toward protecting families and promoting dignity, respect, and peace in the home.