Missing a love one is a painful thing someone might experience, mostly through dead,as you miss your lovely brother,I pray God should filled the gap with another person.
Looking at the funeral,it really shows the love you have for your late brother, following the tradition way of burial in your place indicated the that you have a good morale as a woman.
The flower you place on the grave signify the Love you and the family had,even when he is no more, you people still place an expensive flowers on the grave.
I can confess that you really love you brother and pain of Lost is still in you.
But let me write to that having missed a lovely brother, don't have fear,keep moving on,for God knows it happens so and I hope that it happens at it appointed time that we need not to question God.
So I will drop my pen ,but before then, let me console your heart with this word of strength.
"For every thing that happened there's God and he knows why,so at this moment of grief be console for the fact that you brother has live a God fearing life while on earth."
May his gentle soul rest in peace Amen.
Received my condolences and accept my heartfelt sympathy.