Oh our thoughts have such a huge affect on us and indeed we can be our own worst enemies for sure, and yes so much can also be projected on to us that it is sometimes hard to really know how we feel. It is so great to read all these answers I have learn so much from each one. I love how you talk about the importance of observing our children and not to interfere with their understanding of the world. well done Niina xx thank you for sharing your wisdom xx