You're welcome first of all and no worries on the upvote. I actually love the interaction.

From what I found out I wasn't the 1st person who had done it and she took it too personally. When my husband's aunts explained to her I didn't know she said it was no excuse LOL. They laughed and told her she was being unreasonable. She's an odd character and she's truly a character. She never refers to her husband as my husband or my hubby. She always calls him Mr. E (E is the first letter of his name) . I am really glad my husband stopped me. Yeah the post was along the lines of 'How am I supposed to know if you don't tell me?' I was harsh in my criticism.

I was the one who requested her as friends again, figured it was completely stupid to begin with. I just couldn't deal with her daily dose of insults. The rest of the family found out how nutty she is by her own action. They all told her to apologize and to stop the trash talk. She's not one to do what she's told. She says she'll behave any way she wants even now at 40 yrs old she still has this attitude.

And you could be right, maybe the fact I was able to let it go and forgive her enabled her to do the same. I learned a long time ago. Don't look for an apology, you'll never get one. If you can come to peace with yourself. That's all that matters.