Young man? Haven't been called that in a while, thanks :)

Each day holds a surprise. But only if we expect it can we see, hear, or feel it when it comes to us. Let's not be afraid to receive each day's surprise, whether it comes to us as sorrow or as joy It will open a new place in our hearts, a place where we can welcome new friends and celebrate more fully our shared humanity.
Henri Nouwen

You are so right, I used to get mad when things didn't work out or didn't go my way, but as I got older, I remembered my mothers Polish proverb "Nie ma tego złego, co by na dobre nie wyszło" ("There is no bad thing that doesn't work out for good"). So, that's how I live my life now, take things as they come and see where they take me. That's not to say, that I don't get pissed off at human's stupidity, but I always tell myself, does it really effect me, or is the karma just going to work itself out. I'm a lot happier with life that way and I can share that happiness with others, and if I can make one person just a little bit happier every day, then my day's not wasted :) Hey, you called me young man, you just made my day :D