I sense we are kindred spirits. I relate to the adaptability of being 'no one'.

I don't believe I need to take up a particular identity. Maybe this is more true for women, another one of our special abilities lol (perhaps significant that GRR Martin chose a female character for that plot line/philosophy)

I've got eclectic interests. I'm also gender fluid. Which largely depends on environment. I'm feminine with my male lovers and masculine when around male friends/peers. This confuses people I can tell. I hope to write something about this type of gender fluidity. It is very liberating to embrace what I guess is best described as the anima/animus. Spiritually self-actualizing, completely!

Please share more on your experiences with adaptable identity, in the form of a post if possible. How did you feel it provided you a "break"?