What's Easy: Joy or Sadness?

If the first button of the shirt is wrong, others will go wrong "Cordano Bruno

If you look out of the window you will notice that a strainer operates and passes through this apparatus without people being aware of it. No matter how strange it is, we are also working on the stroke machines. Stress that has a great deal of infectious and transient effects, affects our personal motivation and affects our motivation. If we add negative thoughts and restrictive beliefs deepening here, the issue will be even more unpleasant.

Let's face it with regret that during some communication with young people, we are experiencing these effects. "I know English, I have a diploma, but I can not get to work because of my day-to-day", with some approaches, they actually put their future on the terms.

It is necessary to close the condition that something must happen in order to do so. That is, for "x" to be "y" should occur.

People usually tend to succeed in their lives and failures. They make the condition of joy and sorrow. To answer that, I ask you a question: What do you need to be happy? If you say, "If Arif loves me I'll be very happy," you've lost control of yourself. Here are both conditionality and expectations. So if Arif does not love you, you will not be happy and your joy depends not on you, but on Arif. In other words, you have made it hard for you to rejoice.

She had two daughters. One of the girls was selling umbrellas and the other noodles. When the weather was rainy, she was sorry that my daughter's noodles would not go well. Because there is a need for sunny weather to dry the nest. When the weather was sunny, the old man was still sad. She thought that this time her daughter's umbrella would not work. When a wise person hears this, he advises him to sell noodles when it's sunny and enjoy the good work of umbrellas when it's rainy.

Are you aware of the causes of people's troubles in the world? They make it easy to make them happy and make it easier to grieve. I'm going to ask you: "What do you need to be upset?" Do you notice that in some cases you are so upset about the usual process?

Processes around the world are not important. Important is our perception of them. We can comprehend the process in a way that makes us glad, and also grieves us. This topic is mentioned in the section called "re-framing" in the NLP. One of the ways to get satisfaction and happiness in our lives is to make us happy, to make us sad. To do so, we must re-frame our thinking patterns by noticing our conditionalities.

Increasing stress-resistance - there's nothing to say. Or there is stress or no. If you have determined the starting point for stress, you have to decide beforehand. If you effectively redefine conditions in your mind - no rain, no one's attitude, no court order, or betrayal of a friend will not affect you.