Man and Woman: Mister-Solve-All-Problems

And today I want to talk about the problematic situation, how we solve them. But we solve them in different ways.

I think that every person listened to a lot of jokes about the fact that women need to talk, and men like to talk only about business. To be honest, I can not disagree with this statement. Have you ever seen a man who talks to his close friend for 3 hours on the phone, because he had a difficult day.

I did not see. But the woman who does this ... Yes ... Yes, and I do it myself! Of course, I'm not talking about what a difficult day I have. Just because in my life there is a rule with the title: "Absolute ban on complaints" ... Therefore, no talks about bad weather, about what it cost me to get out of the house and so on and so on.

But to call a friend and tell her that I buy a dress that I look for a couple of months. With big pleasure!

Very often a woman needs to just talk. Now I'll tell you one of the reasons in detail. The fact is that the woman (in the norm) is a very emotional being. A woman is an emotional factory. We "shake" from morning till night. We are on a wave of emotions, then under a wave. And this expressiveness must be released. It's impossible to keep it all in yourself, you can explode.

Now about the men. I do not want to hurt anyone, but a man who is hysterical is not okay. It's terribly.
From myself, as a woman, I say that I want a man to be strong and courageous. I perfectly understand that reality is not always so. There are different situations, but I want to see how a man manages the situation. And this will trigger a cycle in which a woman believes in her man and gives him energy. And if a man is hysterical, then he have certain problems and he does not keep himself under control, not to mention what is happening in business and in life. And me, as a woman, it is very annoying.

Men are much less emotional than women. But. What is important. Men feel much deeper than we do.

Every this word I tell for explain causes of woman's desire to talk. And also to show the difference between her and her man. From the great emotionality that needs to be given a way out, a woman talks a lot. The man - on the contrary.

Often, when a woman has some difficulties, she wants to share them. With whom does she share? Exactly, with a man. For her, it means just talking, just telling. I add from myself that when I talk about something, the problem is already solved by 50%, honestly.

The man speaks less and does not talk about his difficulties. Have you ever noticed that men are impulsive to action? They like to act, not talk. And when a woman comes to her dear to tell about a particular situation, he immediately begins to give advice, tries to solve her problem. While the woman just wanted to share.

What's happening? The woman begins to share her own business. After listening to a minute, the interlocutor grasps the essence. After he caught the gist of the problem, a man, as the author of the book "Men from Mars, a woman from Venus", puts on the crown of Mister-Reshay-All-Problem "and offers a solution to the problem. For him, this is a gesture of love. And for her it looks like this: "He does not happen to me at all, he does not care what happens to me."

Have you ever noticed that a man would tell everyone about his problems? I never. A man chooses a person who is respected and appeals to him if he understands that at this level of development he can not cope with the situation. In other words, when we tell him about a problem, he feels like a person who is smarter than us and who knows what and how to do.

By the way, I can admit that I respect people who can easily ask for advice, help, ask. I know a huge number of women who "will-do-it-yourself". And if a man can ask for advice and does it from a particular person, and not from someone who is not clear, then this indicates his emotional maturity.

Very often a woman can hurt a man simply for the reason that he does not know this important aspect of his psyche.