Humor has many forms, personally I appreciate people with humor and even more when they show a selfsarcasm and in my opinion you have all that. People can and should be honest, someone can not be understood or be liked by everybody but I dislike people that have already formed an opinion and are not willing to hear the other side, even if they say that they want to hear it, with whose people there is no reason to do any conversation because nothing you say can change their opinion. That is indeed their problem.