Love is not just a feeling. Love is not just an attraction, but love is a duty. Love is a duty that should be fulfilled whether you feel like or not.
Titus 2 vs 4 : That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children
If love is a feeling, then it can't be taught, but the scripture here says love can be taught. This means that love is more than a feeling, but rather a commitment to the good of another.
Going by the passage you stated, just the way the young women were told to love their husbands, they were also told to love their children. This love can not be an attraction because am not attracted to my children. This love is a commitment, thats why we are committed to the wellbeing of our kids, even if it is to our own detriment.
This is what love means. Let's not show this attitude to our children alone, but also to our spouse, and to all those around us.
Right on. Love is a commitment and bond according to God's definition.