Memaafkan

With forgiveness, the heavy burden on the heart will disappear. Heart
You will become plong, relieved and light. Forgive is not
easy, but nothing is not easy if you consider it
easy. Indeed that event will not be lost by forgiving,
but his pain and grudge are missing. So when you are
again remember it, your heart will no longer feel the pain.
It seemed so ordinary, as if the incident had never happened.
Forgiving others is important, but more important is
forgive yourself for the mistakes made, on the stigma
and over the fishing you 'swallow'. And, no more demanding-
sue yourself. Let yourself process with time and
experience.
With the current state, which has been upgraded, that is
has gone up in class (someone else's word), should I hate that event?
Should I not be able to recall events that are not
fun is it? How petty if I do it.
Is not that event a cause, which consequently makes
am getting better? Is not it a trough, that is
hence make me try to climb the peak? With
again remembering the event, I can read more and more
finally realized, that the destiny of Allah Ta'ala is the best.
It initially felt pain, but afterwards, I just met
with happiness, of course after going through a long series of processes.
So ... is there any more that want to lose memory?