It is interesting how much we tend to just let things slide over time. I don't know if I would call it bouncing back as much as I would consider it just burying it until it all finally boils to the top at a later date and you have to confront it and actually sit down and have the hard conversations about it. It is freeing when you can finally get all of the things you have been pushing down out in the open though. If you are both able to move forward together after that, so much the better. If not, you were at least finally being honest. It's tough all around though. Good luck!