There is always that one person in a room of 100 that has the ability to bring out the worst in you, other people can pour out their soup on your new Persian carpet and you would be understanding towards them, and then there is that one person that you would get extremely annoyed with for just holding their spoon wrong.

We have all been there at some points in our lives, you know that place where you find yourself angry or upset, but you see getting angry is like drinking poison and expecting the object of your anger to get sick.

Anger is like a poison that sickens your soul, and for the greater part of it; anger is completely and utterly unnecessary as well as unwarranted.

You never know what battle the other person is fighting:

If you have to judge others based on their actions, please take the time to consider that the situation firstly might not be as it seems and secondly take into account that circumstances beyond their control might have lead up to their actions then take into account that we do not know what these battles are that the person is fighting, so; if you do find yourself judging, make sure that you are doing so favorably.

Sitting on a high horse might restrict your view from your own errors and faults that will be the object of your panel of judges at some point.

Rather Sweep In Front Of Your Own Door

Instead of looking for things that upset you in the lives of others, rather look for the things that you can better in yourself.
Every single one of us has faults and the best way to create a world that we are happy to be a part of is to become a person that you can be proud of. Make the changes that you would like to see in others by starting with your own faults and working on them. Then accept the ones around you for all of the good that they host instead of blindly staring into the mistakes they make or have made look part their faults and see their beauty, and strive to be an example rather than a judge.

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