Kids go through that awkward stage of not wanting to eat certain foods. The carrots get hidden in chocolate muffins. Personally, every once in a while a do put carrots in my spaghetti sauce. But I do know what it is like trying to please everybody. Then I took a page out of grandma's book. You eat what the cook makes ready. If you don't like it you have two choices, either go hungry, or you prepare the food next time around. I found no-one wanted to go hungry and when they discovered how much work it is to prepare meals, no more complaints. Amazing!
I am in a tricky position of finding any good without chilli boring. So I have to make my own separate. Sigh I guess I will have to bland up and get with the rest of the team, sob!
No the rest of the team could join you. Small doses at a time. I add chilli to almost everything and then I have a bottle of homemade chilli on the table as well for those that like extra. The health benefits of eating chilli are amazing.
I like the sound of your house! The good lady is fine with it but the daughter hates it. I have tried tiny amounts at a time, she can't stand it!
She's young yet. Give it a wee bit of time. She'll come around.
I am sure she will, I did!