Tolerance makes us more successful

Entire world is now running under the influence of hatred, fight and competition of materialistic achievements. family conflict,socialconflict,or religious conflict are all due to intolerance ability within the humanbeing. Starting from top to bottom we experience intolerance in every sector.Amidst this darkness of the society,to bring peace we need to develop tolerating capacity. It is a virtue as well as a power.Few things if we keep in our mind we can be tolerant.
The power of truth gives us the ability to tolerate. When someone disbelieves us and challenges the truth of our word or action we tend to argue back and try to prove our point. Sometime we become successful in convincing others but sometimes in spite of our great effort we are not able to convince and we end up frustrated
We should understand the simple fact that more we talk the less we are listened to. Rather we should think about whether there is something we can correct within us and instead of being stubborn about what we have to say or blame others and make the situation more critical, it is wise to look deep inside us,find out the reason if there,then only we can be tolerant. And if we find ourselves truthful then we should remember the fact that truth has its own power to be proved on its way.So it is wise to wait for the right time and remain calm. Truthfulness is a natural strength.
True tolerance is free from negative feelings. Tolerance means accepting that which we find difficult. When we have to tolerate something we feel that we have a lot to endure and with effort we can adapt to the situation even though we may harbor negative feelings. This is not real tolerance. Tolerance is the ability to use our inner power to deal with a difficult situation in the right way.When we work on improving ourselves on this point in each challenge we can manage ourselves to move forward. We can free ourselves from negative feeling and experience progress in every step.Negativity makes us more intolerant.
True affection for others makes us tolerant. Affection frees us from expectations enabling us to accept people as they are. When we look deep within and love ourselves, we grow strong understanding .Understanding ourselves leads to understanding others and then tolerance follows naturally.So when any person in whom we see some negativity that we struggle to tolerate, we need to remind ourselves that just as a mother accept her child despite his weakness, we can accept this person as he or she is. When we can learn to show our true affection for others for what they are ,we can be easily become tolerant.We have to understand that we can not change others but we can change our behavior towards others .No one is 100% correct ,everyone has some weaknesses. Seeing others positive quality can make us tolerant.
Tolerance makes us more successful .tolerance frees the mind of careless thoughts because when we experience no negativity toward anyone we experience less opposition in life.We adapt to accept others and situations as they are and this leads to achieve success without hinderance.
Tolerance is the most needed virtue for present world. Entire world is sinking into naegativity,so we need to draw our attention upon the power of tolerance to help us accept the situation,circumstances,places and people irrespective of cast,culture,and country.