Another of my rules

There is nothing worse for a thinking person than to be led and live a strange life. When you for the sake of someone, even for understandable reasons, postpone for later something of your own. You put your priorities in the rank of less important things, thrown in a long box. Many people do this time after time, thinking that someone is more important, more important that it will be successful, will grow together, it will become somehow somehow. No, it will not! Because it does not happen in life somehow. Either something belongs to you by right, or you ... just a good and convenient tool, an eternal apprentice, which is easily and without a twitch kicked in the ass, when it will not be needed.
Every time you waste, squander, scatter ideas, words, thoughts, eventually someone will make a name for it, money, glory, and you will not get anything, often even do not say thank you. And time will be lost ...
One should never allow oneself to live by other people's goals, to follow someone else's way, to give up what is important to you, because then, when the time comes to pay the bills, yours will be empty.
You have not collected anything, you have not gained anything, you have not succeeded in anything, you have not achieved anything.
And I do not want to hear in the end - "You're a good helper." This is too little gratitude and provide a comfortable life and a decent old age, it will not help. Because to help is not to go yourself. All those laurels will be appropriated by the one to whom you helped, and you, on the contrary, he will try to move away, or else you will decide on a part of his / her laurels to claim.
Therefore, I know for sure: NO ONE! NEVER! Not a minute in life is worth it for him to give up what is important to me.
Otherwise it will not be life, but ... a free technical support service.

Good morning friends! Our backwater was covered with snow again overnight! Do not pass and do not pass. Transport does not go, it went on foot. How nice to warm your hands with a hot cup of tea with sea buckthorn!