Very well said, and I hope others read your post!

There are things that require legitimate criticism, however, often people criticise others for no legitimate reason. I did this when I was younger.

As I grew older I realised that life is rarely ever black or white but is just various shades of grey.

Before I criticise others (which is extremely rare) I ask myself what would I have done in their situation and if that I know all of the facts. If I do criticise then I also provide possible solutions, otherwise, it would just be myself whinging.

I fear that often people criticise others as a form of entertainment rather than a way to help the other improve themselves...