I think a good mixture is important. If you want to be a part of any society, sometimes you have to do things you'd rather not. And sometimes doing them opens your mind to different possibilities, and different experiences. If it was up to me I'd probably never go out. But my wife likes to go round our friends houses for dinner parties and I actually do really enjoy it. Its important to be able to say no, but also to know that if you say no all the time people will stop asking. And they may not be there when you need them x
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You have a point here, though the trouble is, they might not be there for you when you need them regardless of the compromises and sacrifices you make for them. People seem to have a skewed way of counting, forgetting that you were there when they don't want to do the same for you.
True. There are always consequences to your actions and that s one you should be okay with before you say no, I think. You might be kicking away future opportunities you might otherwise enjoy or you might be relieving yourself of future hassle. One should always think these things through as best he can.
Thank you for commenting :)
Yes, it is true the people who are there for you are often not the ones you expect should be.
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