Hey, @revisesociology.

I'll be happy if I get to the big long list that I can mix up. :)

re: two cases

Yeah, I think I've come to that same conclusion, even if I was more taken aback as a whole by the man than I was by the young boy. I do remember wondering when the grandparents would actually cut him off, and then of course, I had to wonder what I would do if it were me.

Problem with that is, until it happens, like with the homeless person, I can say it's going to happen one way all I want. I'm sure I will find out, probably sooner than later, since I do have three (we've just not found ourselves in that type of situation yet. :)